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HOW TO REDECORATE YOUR HOME ON A LOW BUDGET (OR NO BUDGET AT ALL!)

Okay honestly, I’m sure there are a few of you who wonder how I can afford to buy furniture and decor for my home(s) at my current age– and current unemployment status (help). The truth is, my investments in my home have taken place over time. Since college, I have spent the majority of my disposable income on my apartment(s) because it’s what truly brings me joy (*ahem* Marie Kondo) and is what I’m passionate about. I’m not a huge drinker, I rarely eat out and really don’t buy clothes all that often. Once you accumulate some pieces it becomes easier to slowly grow your belongings because you now have capital to work with.

I have developed a bit of a strategy over the years on how to hustle my way to a styled home. I wanted to share some of my top tricks with you all today. To start…

1. Never buy full-priced

My reasoning for this is that if you always wait for a markdown on an item, you can sell back when you redecorate down the road for the same price you purchased it. This will appear like you are offering a deal to buyers when in reality you are simply recouping your funds. If you ever need to lower the price of an item if it isn’t selling quickly, this strategy helps cut your losses as well.

Speaking of reselling–

2. Utilize Craigslist, Facebook Marketplace and other reselling avenues

Every time I want to replace something in my home, I make myself sell the item before purchasing the replacement and I use the money from that sale to purchase the said replacement. Something that has helped me with resale is the fact that I don’t mind putting furniture together. To many, it is a plus that they are able to buy something pre-assembled. Another thing that has helped with resale? The fact that I don’t purchase anything full-priced so I’m always naturally providing a deal as already explained.

To date, I’ve sold about 50-60 things between Facebook Marketplace and Craigslist. It’s almost entirely how I fund my redesigns. Make sure to keep the money from your sales separate from your “normal” money so you can keep track of how much you have to buy new things with so you never spend any extra or unexpected money out of pocket.

I do feel obligated to remind you all to always be safe when selling. I used to give buyers the address of a condo building a couple down from mine near the road so nobody knew my exact address. People always appreciated this because they didn’t have to expose themselves to a stranger’s home and it made it easier for them to load things into their cars. Be wary of selling after dark and make sure someone is aware that you’re meeting up so they can expect you back within a certain timeframe to ensure your safety.

3. Be resourceful

I currently have a scheme going on eBay that involves me selling a “coupon” to a well-known retailer that does not typically deliver coupons or discounts to their store other than through their referral program. People are just buying my referral, which gives them a certain percentage off of their first order at this retailer. I don’t pretend to be anything I’m not and I think people are simply unaware of the referral program and are looking to get whatever deal they can find. My “coupon” is listed for $0.99 on eBay (the lowest you can list an item) but I’d give them away for free if I could! Each time someone buys something with my referral, I get $20 to the retailer. I’ve made $350 since September doing this and it’s allowed me to buy small knick knacks and decor pieces that I wouldn’t have otherwise spent my money on.

4. Plan ahead (or expect to be patient)

You have two options when it comes to redecorating an entire space on a limited budget. You can either plan ahead, prepare your purchases and accumulate slowly or wait until it is time to redecorate and have to purchase everything all at once while still being held down with the old items you aren’t into anymore. Additionally, sometimes good deals take time. For example, Wayfair’s pricing always fluctuates so when I find a piece that I want to buy, I bookmark it and watch it for a few weeks.

A great example of this strat is my media console in my living room— I originally bookmarked it at one price and a few weeks later it dropped significantly, then rose again to the original price and then rose to an even higher price. I freaked out a bit and found that on AllModern (another Wayfair company), the console was selling for the original price so I took the plunge. I was okay with this decision because I felt like I had educated myself on the selling value of the piece.

After purchasing, don’t forget to follow up because companies like Wayfair have adjustment periods where they will honor any price drops within a certain timeframe of delivery. The price of my console dipped again within a week of me receiving it and I was able to get a price adjustment after I had already purchased and assembled it.

Another example of planning ahead paying off was my other media console that I have in our bedroom. I wanted the IKEA Stockholm buffet for our new place and after weeks of thinking about it, I ALMOST went to go buy it full-priced at IKEA against all of my better judgment. Not sure why I didn’t go when I had planned to but I’m so glad I didn’t because the following day I got a Craigslist alert in my email that someone IN MY TOWN was selling the exact piece. Me and Charlie rounded up and we rolled out the next day to go get it. We nabbed it for almost half off AND didn’t even have to assemble it. Patience is valuable!

5. Always try to upgrade (never downgrade)

If your goal is to work your way up to pieces in your home that you plan to keep around for awhile, then you should always keep in mind: upgrade always, downgrade never. I implement this by buying pieces that I know are of better quality than the item I sold them for and if I have to, putting a tiny bit of money into the piece out of pocket so the investment slowly grows over time.

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I know a few of you have reached out asking for assistance designing and decorating your spaces. I would LOVE to help you determine your style and handpick pieces for your home. Please email me at hello@baileybeeblog.com if you’re interested or check out my e-Design page for rates plus before and afters!

WEDDING WEDNESDAY: PHOTOGRAPHY AND PHOTOGRAPHERS!

Hey guys!

In case you were TOTALLY counting…….. (not)….. we are *only* 627 days until our wedding!!!!!

Hahahahahaha yes, really.

I am so grateful for our long engagement because it has allowed us to take our time choosing vendors for the big day and not rush any major purchases and/or decisions. Another main perk? Pretty much every vendor is still available! We get freeeeee ranged pick of the lot.

So far in the wedding planning process we have chosen our date (October 11th, 2020) and our venue. I’d like to keep the venue a secret for a while but I’ll let you know that it IS in Raleigh. We’re embracing our new home and see ourselves here for years to come so it only seems natural to share this new place with all of our friends and family. It’s a destination wedding for… pretty much everybody other than us. Oops.

In addition to the date and venue, we also just signed our contract on our photographer. I have been thinking about the photographer for my wedding longer than I have thought about any other major details like the cake or even my dress! I am a photographer at heart and I follow quite a few professionals that I’ve loved since I first picked up a camera. I wanted to bring you all through my inspiration of styles for photographers that I love.

Firstly, I had to start off with Jordan Voth. He’s located in the Pacific Northwest but in 2011 he did a road trip around the country and I was going to have him do my senior portraits for high school. Unfortunately, I was on a family vacation when he came through my area but I always told myself I’d think of him first when I got engaged. I did not end up booking him for the wedding but not for any reason other than distance. All of the photographers I am showcasing here today are ones I’ve followed for years but are not local to Raleigh. The photographer we did end up booking is INCREDIBLE and is also a local! A total win-win.

Here is some of Jordan’s work:

Next is another photographer that I discovered around the same time as Jordan. His name is Taylor McCutchan and he is insaaaanely talented. In addition to his near-perfect photos and impeccable edits, he does some really cool double exposures that you’ll see an example of below:

A more recent discovery of mine is Duke Moose. He’s based in Utah and, well, his location speaks for itself. He captures people in Utah’s unbelievable scenery so majestically. It’s really unfair that all of America doesn’t look like it.

Here are a couple of my favorites by him:

Last but certainly not least for my inspirational photogs is the first-ever wedding photographer that I followed. I remember being a freshman in high school, sitting in the corner of the computer room of my school’s photo lab. I had just discovered Shannon Nicole Smith (now: Vine and Light Photography) and fell in love with her work. It was the first time I’d seen candid wedding photography where people look happy, lively and NORMAL. I’ve kept tabs on her in the years since and felt it was a necessity to include her in this post.

Now for the real deal! I wasn’t sure I was gonna share my vendors as we booked ’em but honestly….. how could I hold back on this one? We booked Three Region Photography and let me tell ya– I am so freaking happy I decided to look local because if I hadn’t, one of the photographers listed above would have been booked and I would have missed the magic that is Jessica’s work.

I try very hard to separate photographic skill and “the eye” from post-processing work. I haven’t always been this way and really only recently learned that anyone can slap a Lightroom preset on a photo, call it a day and look impressive. I now appreciate someone who can capture a perfectly crisp image in a scenario that is ever-moving and quickly changing. Jessica recently posted something on her Instagram that I thought was so incredible, as it was very different from my personal experience as a (hobby) photographer and think it exudes the confidence in her ability: she said instead of shooting on burst, she sits and waits for the moments that need to be captured. I believe she likened it to being a Nat Geo photographer waiting for a specific action of an animal in the wild and I think that speaks to her incredible work tremendously.

Now, let me back up and say that editing IS important. That is what initially caught my eye with Three Region. There’s a slight moodiness that never leans too dramatic and her work just feels grounded. It’s not bubbly but it still exemplifies joy. It’s not stiff but you will still get all of your necessary, more posed shots. Simply put: it feels real. She is everything that I wish I could be as a photographer and I am SO excited to have her photograph our big day.

That’s all for today’s Wedding Wednesday! I believe the next major detail that’s up for choosing is…… THE DRESS!!!!!! See you all then 🙂

Want to see what else we’ve planned for our big day?

Head over to my Wedding Wednesday tag to read all or use this navigation to pop to a certain subject:

VENUE | DRESS | SAVE-THE-DATES 1 and 2 | BRIDESMAIDS

15 CUTE POTS + PLANTERS FOR SPRING 2019

2018 was the year of the houseplant. I got deep into the trend and I know so many of you did as well. It seemed the mass market stores weren’t aware of the trend or at least couldn’t keep up with demand if they were because the problem I continued to have throughout the year was finding cute pots and planters from regular stores. Thankfully, 2019 is starting off on a good foot in that regard because they are much easier to find now and we’re only half a month into the new year. I have compiled a list of my favorite pots, planters and plant stands on the market right now. Some of these I currently own, have owned in the past (but got rid of when I moved and downsized my plant fam), have seen in-store or just know to be of good quality from my research.
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If you’re worried about drainage holes, fret not. I have a post about adding holes to ANY pot you get, even ones without any drainage to begin with. Go read that before you go out to buy rocks for the bottoms of your pots 🙂
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1. World Market Sevilla Planters (three colors, two sizes)
2. Target Project 62 Ceramic Planter with Metal Stand White/Black (three sizes)
3. Target Project 62 Stoneware Planter with Stand Orange/Gold (two sizes)
4. World Market Dark Turquoise Ceramic Planter with Wood Stand
5. Target Threshold White Planter (smaller size)
6. Target Project 62 Stoneware Floor Planter with Wood Stand White/Brown
7. CB2 Lupa Planters (two sizes)
8. Urban Outfitters Bistro 12″ Rattan Planter + Stand
9. Target Project 62 Ceramic Planter with Stand White/Black (three sizes)
10. Target Project 62 Hexagon Stoneware Planter Terracotta (three sizes)
11. Urban Outfitters Parker 6″ Planter + Drainage Tray Sets (also comes in 4″ and 10″)
12. West Elm Half Dipped Planters (two sizes)
13. Target Smith & Hawken Plant Stand Black & Wood
14. Serena and Lily Dip Dyed Stools (two sizes, three colors)
15. Target Project 62 Terrazzo Plant Table

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I hope you all enjoy these decently affordable pots, planters and plant stands. I’m probably going to be buying a couple for myself soon in preparation for spring. To make shopping a bit easier, I’ve added most of these planters to the widget below for you:

MY GO-TO LIP GLOSSES

Happy 2019 everybody!!!

I am happy to report that I’ve successfully relocated to Raleigh, North Carolina and finally feel settled in. I’ve already met some really great gals in the “influencing” space down here (hate that word) who I feel will become fast friends and provide a wealth of knowledge to me. I’ve never sought out ladies with similar goals as my own so I can only imagine what stuff I’ll learn as we bounce ideas off one another this year.

Today I wanted to chat lip gloss. Since the matte liquid lip era ended, lip gloss has taken over as the new trend. Just as everyone wants dewy, glowing skin, they also want dewy lips. I’ll be honest, I once bought a MAC lip glass in 2005 and decided I disliked lipgloss and never tried again until this new era arose. I was so unfair to gloss as a whole because MAC lip glasses are the worst and the glosses I’m going to mention below are not!

If you’ve tried lip gloss before and didn’t like the stickiness, read on to see which formulas I love that don’t give that gross feeling. You’ll notice a trend… they’re all pinky nudes. That, for now, is as far as I will dive into lip glosses. I’ve only had negative experiences with more pigmented tones separating every time my lips touch but rest assured that one day I will venture away from this grouping!

In descending color order I have my five favorite lip glosses that are my fave because of either color, formula or both. Here are some on-lip swatches on my (typically) Fenty 110/120 skin with a bit of a faux tan.

The first gloss up is fitting to lead. The Bite Beauty French Press lip gloss in ‘Flat White’ my most surprisingly consistent product in this group. I use it OFTEN. Like, I’m-gonna-run-out-any-minute often. I love the entire French Press collection by Bite because everyone should be able to find a suitable nude for their skintone, even with a limited range of shades. I commend Bite for that! True to their name, these glosses have a strong coffee bean scent that I really enjoy. If you don’t, no prob. The scent barely lingers past application. Stickiness factor: 2.5/5
Bite Beauty ‘Honey’ is a pretty, neutral gloss with very subtle gold shimmer. I like to wear this whenever I’m wanting a tone less fair than Flat White. It’s not sold anymore so it’s not much use but I wanted to include it here since I wear it often enough. That being said, there is a sticky factor involved with this one so I usually aim to have my hair up or stay inside whenever I rock Honey. If you’re interested in this but can’t buy it for obvious reasons, keep reading a couple of paragraphs down… Stickiness factor: 4/5
Next up! Not to spoil this post but my favorite gloss out of all of these? The Glossier clear lip gloss. It’s so plush. So comfortable. Lasts a decent length of time but has ZERO stick. You can’t get any more versatile than a clear lip gloss and if you need to buy one gloss from this post, it’s this one. It works wonderfully as an eye gloss, too! Stickiness factor: 1/5
I got the Becca Cosmetics Glow Gloss in ‘Lilac Geode’ from the Lilac Love Lip and Highlighting Duo at Ulta alongside a matching highlighter. I only purchased the set because I liked the highlighter but have been very pleasantly surprised by this gloss. It’s a sheer rose gold that comes across similarly to Bite ‘Honey’ on me if you were wanting to get that one but couldn’t. It is fairly sticky but nothing tar-like. I’d say stickiness factor: 3/5
Lastly, the Fenty Beauty Gloss Bomb in ‘Fu$$y’. I had heard allllllll the hype and decided to finally give in. The first Gloss Bomb release was far too brown for my complexion, the second much too frosty for my liking. This shade? Perfectly pink. The shimmer threw me a bit initially because it is a cooler tone but once on the lip you really can’t tell and you can not feel any grit either (usually associated with sparkly lip products). I loOove the large applicator and how plush this gloss is. Stickiness factor: 1/5
If you’re interested in any of the products I mentioned in this post, feel free to shop this post below:

NEW FENTY BEAUTY MATTEMOISELLE LIPSTICKS IN ‘BALLERINA BLACKOUT’, ‘THICC’, ‘PUMPKIN ROSE’ AND ‘FLAMINGO ACID’

Oh. MY GOSH.

GUYS

Fenty released their new Mattemoiselle shades. You BETTER BELIEVE I ordered them the morning they launched. I was so so so so tempted to buy the 10/10 set but held out because I only wanted a few shades out of those ten and was just hoping the shades would be released individually. Lo and behold… here we are.

Here are the four shades I picked up: Ballerina Blackout, Thicc, Pumpkin Rose and Flamingo Acid.

And most importantly, on-lip swatches on my Fenty 110/120 skin tone:

Here’s my quick breakdown by shade…
I decided at the last second to purchase Ballerina Blackout because my go-to lipstick shade is a bubblegum pink but I had a feeling this wasn’t going to work out and, well, I was right. It’s much too white-based and leans too blue for my liking. I don’t see this one being a universal favorite for anyone, really. It reads very 2000’s mod pink ala MAC’s ‘Pink Nouveau’.
The one shade I was most excited for was Thicc and yet another disappointment. Unfortunately for me, Thicc does not show up as pink on me like it does on other skin tones that I’ve seen so I’m not sure I’m even going to keep it. Formula-wise though, Thicc is one of the “good ones” and is very silky
‘Pumpkin Rose’ is riiiiiight up my alley. I love a good yellow-orange. This shade is described as a “marigold” and on the promo photos appeared almost like a mustard tone but on me? A super poppy orange. I freaking LOVE this shade. I thought I loved Saw-C from the debut release of Fenty’s Mattemoiselles but I prefer Pumpkin Rose to Saw-C now for sure. The formula is nicer this go around, too. Less chalky and more like the rest of the shades.
Lastly, another random addition to my cart, Flamingo Acid. This shade is the winner of the lipsticks I purchased. It is soooOOo pigmented and really, really flattering. This will easily be a universal favorite– I will call it right now! The formula is on point; it leaves a LASTING stain on the lips and has one swipe coverage.
I was also intrigued to see Pumpkin Rose compared to Saw C and Lime Crime’s ‘Squash’. Pumpkin Rose is pretty much Squash in the Mattemoiselle formula. Saw C is more vibrant/neon and slightly redder. Clearly, as I mentioned, I have a thing for orange lippies.
Overall, I am pleased with this second set of additions to the Fenty Beauty Mattemoiselle line. I appreciate the funky color options and will most likely purchase some more down the line. For now? Catch me rocking out with Flamingo Acid and Pumpkin Rose on my lips every single day.
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MY HOLY GRAIL MAKEUP BRUSHES

Hi guys! I hope you all had a lovely holiday, whichever it is that you choose to celebrate. If you’re reading this the week I’m posting it, rest assured that I have exhausted myself by moving my life to another state!!!! I can’t wait to share my new home with you and adventure the state of  North Carolina.
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Until then,
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I wanted to talk about my holy grail makeup brushes. I have been playing with makeup for many, many years. About 13 years so far. That brings me back to 7th grade where I specifically remember rocking this L’Oreal shadow duo daily. Yes, really. That is when I learned that I loved yellow eyeshadow and that purple shadows were difficult to formulate. Here’s photo proof of young Bailey rocking a yellow lid much like I still do nowadays.
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Anyway, my point is that I’ve worked my way through a lot of makeup and thus, a lot of makeup brushes. The ones I am about to list are not only all dependable but also affordable and long-lasting. I don’t own any high-end brushes so I hope this collection will be useful for all, no matter the budget!
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First is my eyebrow brush. I rely on a brush to do my eyebrows because I utilize powders and pomades, not pencils. This Anastasia Beverly Hills #7 brush is stiff enough and a decent enough length to get eyebrows done quickly yet precisely. The bonus spoolie on the end is always useful, too.
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Next is the Real Techniques Deluxe Crease brush. This is a more recent favorite of mine and I like it because I can apply a decent amount of product on the outer crease-to-brow bone area to build depth. My eyes are deep set and I have to use a lot of shadow to show continuity between my eye and my outer crease and this brush gets it done quickly. I usually use another blending brush to blend the product after applying it down.
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The Benefit Hoola brush was something I didn’t know existed until this year. I was skeptical to buy a brush from a company that really doesn’t make or focus on brushes but I was very pleasantly surprised.  I have now replaced my previous bronzing brushes with this guy. It fits into the contour of the cheek very nicely and the rounded shape allows you to define while simultaneously blending out edges.
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I didn’t start wearing foundation until this year and although I don’t wear it every time I apply makeup,  I wear it often enough to need to understand how to properly apply it. The world of foundation brushes was so foreign to me and I really thought I could get away with just using my Beauty Blender for all applications. Well, that proved difficult as my foundations dry down and make blending out evenly quite difficult with just my blender. I decided to trust the good reviews on this Real Techniques Expert Face brush and pick it up. I now use this to evenly distribute product around my face before melting it into the skin with my blender. What can I say, I love the thing. But this Real Techniques brush is the perfect partner-in-crime!
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The Real Techniques Setting brush is quite possibly my favorite brush that I own. It’s intended use is to set under the eyes which, let me say, it is incredible at. In addition to setting the undereye, I also use this as a highlighter brush. It is the PERFECT size for the tops of the cheekbones and fits under the browbone and in the inner corner, too. Three seconds of swirling will get you glowing seamlessly.
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When I was a freshman in college I splurged and purchased my first proper makeup brush set. In that set was the Sigma E40 which would quickly become my go-to blending brush. Although I loved this brush, I always felt a bit out of the loop as the rest of the beauty world was utilizing the Sigma E25 religiously. Years later I decided to buy said Sigma E25 and you know what? I prefer the E40. It’s a bit rough on the eye but the shape of the brush blends shadow SO beautifully into the crease. You barely have to do any work at all. The E40 is superior to all other Sigma blending brushes!
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One of the first makeup brushes I owned was this Sephora Collection Shadow and Smudge brush. Ask me why and I’ll say I have no idea because I remember this brush being $18 which was UN-IMAGINABLY expensive for young me BUT this brush is so soft and so dense and makes packing product onto the lid a breeze. It’s dual-ended and the soft packing brush is paired with a short, stiff lining brush that has created sooo many liner looks for me throughout the years. Unfortunately, this brush is no longer available but I had to include it because it has survived the test of time and has remained a favorite of mine for over a decade.
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Last but not least is the Sigma P88. This is my most recent brush purchase– I got it in a set from Marshall’s BUT I was days away from buying it full price! I couldn’t believe my eyes when I found it discounted there. I love love love this brush for cleaning up an winged shadow gone awry on my outer corner/crease region. I pick up my concealer and carve out a straight line and it immediately pulls a look together. When I don’t feel like blending out my concealer with my finger, I use this brush for that as well.
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I hope I’ve inspired you to pick up one or some of these tried-and-true brushes. If you have any questions or have opinions you’d like to share, please feel free to below.
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QUICK AND EASY HOLIDAY HAIRSTYLE FOR ALL LENGTHS AND TEXTURES

Happy Tuesday! Merry Christmas to those of you who celebrate.

Regardless of beliefs, we all have one holiday coming up: New Year’s Eve!

I’m taking a quick break from packing up my life because I wanted to share this super easy, yet impactful holiday hairstyle that can work for any hair length. It’s quick, cheap and super easy to do. All you need are some bobby pins and a fairly firm hairspray.
You can personalize this style to any hair type or length. You can choose to go natural, slick it straight or curl like me! I utilized two different lengths of bobby pins to get a more “sunburst” look but you can use all the same length to keep it mod. This style starts with a deep side part.
If you want to go the curl route like me, I curled my entire head away from my face with a 1 1/4″ curling iron.
Next, take your bobby pins and open them up between your fingers. Spray hairspray in and around the bobby pin so it can securely hold your hair. If you have less or finer hair than me this may not be 100% necessary but it’s better to be safe (and secure) than sorry. On the side of your part and using your ear as your guide, pull back your hair behind your ear and secure with a sticky bobby. Take this time to angle the bobby in a way that makes a statement! Repeat as needed to complete your design. Finish with another spritz of hairspray for good measure and you are ready to party all night long.
I hope you enjoy and let me know if you end up rocking this hairstyle for any of your upcoming holiday events. I’d love to see pictures! You can use #baileybeebeauty to tag your pics on Instagram.
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WEDDING WEDNESDAY: ENGAGEMENT RING SIZING ISSUES (HOW-TO FIX A TWIRLING OR LOOSE RING)

Okie dokie. Today’s post may be a bit niche but I’m hoping it’ll find its way to the proper corner of the internet to help some people.

In the past three or four months since getting engaged, I’ve mostly dealt with one thing: my engagement ring. No, no. Nothing about the design of it (it’s exactly what I wanted) or even the ring itself, really (although I tried). It’s more an issue of my finger.

Let’s start at the beginning, shall we?

Here is my freaking perfect ring:

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Honestly not sure how the ring managed to be straight in that photo because it was hu-u–u-u-u-ge on me. HOWEVER! There was nothing actually wrong with my ring. It properly fit over my knuckle but once it cleared that, it was massive on the meat of my finger. I realized this QUICKLY upon getting on my computer and more specifically, my keyboard. That thing was spinning all around my finger and it was wildly distracting. Does this look familiar?

The two-plus months following our engagement were spent back and forth between our jewelers’ shop doing the following:

  • Sizing the ring down from a 5.75 to a 5.5 (it was still too ‘big’)
  • Sizing the ring down from a 5.5 to a 5.25 (it was still twirling around the meat of my finger– too ‘big’)
  • Adding sizing beads to keep the ring from twirling (now it was too tight and couldn’t get past my knuckle)
  • Sizing the ring back to a 5.5 and keeping the sizing beads (still too tight to get around my knuckle)
  • Removing the sizing beads and keeping the ring at a 5.5 (just barely fits over my knuckle but still twirls on the meat of my finger)
By the last change, I was so frustrated by the process and was determined to figure it out by myself because every time I dropped the ring off at the jeweler’s it took two to three weeks to get it returned back to me. I was newly engaged! I wanted to show off my ring!
 
THANKFULLY
 
as my jeweler dropped the ring off with the final edit, he suggested a short-term fix of some clear plastic corkscrews that twist around the ring once it had already been put on. I ended up purchasing these from Amazon. This “short-term fix” has become my forever solution.
 
The pack I purchased comes with three different corkscrews varying in thickness. I personally have to use the thickest ones and wrap them almost the entire back side of my ring– see below:

It’s not very pretty whenever the inside of your hand is shown in photos or video but it keeps my ring upright and feeling comfortable. I’m hoping in the Summer my finger will swell a bit more and I’ll be able to use the thinner adjusters but I’m just so relieved to have solved this problem as of now.
 
I know I can’t be the only one who has larger knuckles and slimmer fingers and I hope someone reads this blog before trying to add on sizing beads or bars to their ring because they really don’t solve this issue. I’m all for saving time and money when it comes to something as exciting as an engagement ring! If you have this problem, I invite you to sound off in the comments below so we can chat! I know it’s super frustrating and have beeeeeeen there. Good luck! Let me know if you choose to buy these plastic adjusters and how they work out for you.